How to build a strong self-image?

How to build a strong self-image?💪

What is self-image?

It is, after all, the picture we have of ourselves. The way we see ourselves as individuals. We tend to focus more on our insufficiency, making it difficult to focus on the different characteristics that distinguish us as unique humans with unusual talents. However, some of us here tend to dwell on our inadequacies and feel inept. Doubts begin to take over our thinking. Furthermore, we begin to cultivate the seeds of a negative self-image. 

I want to share a quote by Robert Frost;

Something we were withholding made us weak Until we found out it was ourselves.

Some of us have dreadful mental images of ourselves that we often concentrate on, believing that these are the ONLY images that characterize us. This is who we are, and there is nothing else to it! I don't blame you because everyone's circumstances are different. Most individuals are unaware of their worth. Your self-image develops in childhood, mostly as a result of how your parents treated you as a kid, whether they were helpful or abusive, and these qualities tend to show in our adult life. Fortunately, no matter how wonderfully or terribly we have been treated by our parents or classmates, we can still change our beliefs about ourselves!

How to create a better self-image?

Always remember that your thoughts shape who you are. WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU BECOME. Your subconscious mind will accept any thoughts about yourself that you regularly think, whether it is true or not, and that idea will eventually become part of your self-image.

 Embrace your uniqueness

There is no one like you and there will never be. Let that sink in. No one can do things the same way you do them. You have unique attributes that you only you can cherish.

  You will become whatever you consistently think about yourself. 

Your ideas influence your reality. Whatever you believe, whether it is good or terrible, you become. Successful ideas make a successful person, just as confident thoughts generate a confident person, shy thoughts create a shy person, and successful thoughts create a successful person. You will be able to modify your reality if you change your thinking. 

 

 Love yourself, recognize that you have unlimited power, you can do anything!

Accept yourself as you are, don't attempt to alter yourself for someone else, and don't even try to compare yourself to someone else. You don't have to pretend to be someone else. Once you accept yourself for who you are, you will be free to explore additional parts of yourself, sides of yourself you never knew existed. Remove the strain off attractive individuals. BE YOURSELF and let the universe unfold beautiful surprises for you!